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Patrick Richard O'Malley Sr.

April 13th, 1942 - April 22nd, 2021

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On Thursday, April 22, 2021, Patrick Richard O’Malley Sr. (O’ Paddy O’ to many of his friends) passed away due to medical complications. Pat turned 79 on April 13, 2021.

Pat was a former long-time resident of Sandy, Oregon, but had lived the past 30 years at the Northern Oregon coast. He spent the last six years in Astoria with his constant companion and beloved feline friend Fred. He absolutely loved the view of the Columbia River from his home which included watching ships glide up and down the river and being privy to many spectacular sunrises and sunsets.

As a young man, Pat served four years in the Navy and was stationed in San Diego, California. Thereafter he was self-employed at Woodpecker Woodworking as a cabinet maker in Sandy. Pat lived an unpretentious life but was a keen businessman who wisely invested in real estate which enabled him to live out his dream of semi-retiring when he was just 42.

Pat was preceded in death by his mother Ruth, step-father Clarence Mason, his father George Edward O’Malley, and Pat’s first wife Vicki O’Malley. Survivors include his former second and third wives, Pam Forder and Sharon O’Malley, his siblings, children, stepchildren, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Pat’s children, Dawn Sayles (Roger), Patrick O’Malley Jr., Shannon Dirks, Melissa Newberry (Jeff), Michael O’Malley (Nichole), and Colby Charlton (Mark) have many fond memories of his bigger-than-life persona. Pat’s grandchildren are Summer Ruegger, Jeff and John Sayles, Samantha Deegan O’Malley, Nicholas and Michael Dirks, Jacob and Justin Newberry, Taylor Koch, Presley and Vance O’Malley, Arleigh and Maddox Charlton. Pat’s great-grandchildren are Oliver, Aspen and Oakley Ruegger, and Harriet Dirks.

Pat was a deeply spiritual person who loved telling stories, being outdoors, fishing, playing cribbage, stamp collecting, cars, motorcycles, going to garage sales, listening to music and refinishing antiques. He loved people, especially the laughter and joy of children. Pat loved to laugh and was as witty as he was talented. Pat enjoyed building unique things including a turn of the century cabin and a vintage logger shack.

Pat was a proud member of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) for 38 years. He was very proud of his sobriety and loved helping others in need. Pat’s home was always open to anyone. There is a guest sign-in book at Pat’s home in Astoria which is filled with hundreds of entries from people all over the US. Pat’s charisma and charm will be sorely missed by all who love him.

A Celebration of Life will be held this summer in Astoria.

In honor of his memory, donations can be made to your favorite charity.

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Pat and I were close shipmates in the Navy aboard the USS Pickaway APA 222. My deepest condolences to his family members. I just now found out that he had passed. Sincerely, Al Burkhardt on this date 7/23/2022. May he rest in peace... Al Burkhardt
Dear children of Vicki & Pat,
I am so sorry to have just learned of your dad's passing. I first met Pat in San Diego when he married my best friend Vicki. Even though their lives were full of trouble, their love remained forever.
Judy Wundrach
I didn't know Pat personally, but I'm Shannon's neighbor and I'm lucky I am.. Jan Gerard
Oh I am so sad to hear Pat has passed on.
I will miss him. We shared many years as friends in Astoria.
He loved his family so much.
Take precious care.
Mary Ann Jesse
We are so sorry to hear of Pat's passing. He was a good neighbor and friend for many years. I know he will be greatly missed. Please know you all are in our thoughts and prayers. Gary and Ginger Watson
Pat. You are and will be greatly missed. I hope you find an AA meeting where you are and I’ll look for you when I get there. Brian Burke

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